I suppose these pics that John took speak for themselves. 60 pounds of dead weight. I have fabulous biceps..in fact, another nurse at work commented on them, asking me what do i do with my arms that results in such muscles....I am a "glass-half-full" kinda girl so I prefer to focus on what Sarah's weight is doing for my increasing musculature and bone density. As John so matter-of-factly put- "Mom, if you lift her every day you will always be able to lift her because she is not going to gain much weight in one single day." I tell myself this every morning as I lift my girl out of bed. So far, he is on the mark :-)